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I think as we grow in our walks, we gain a little wisdom along the way. Some of it sticks, too! It’s with these new tools that I can deal with that painful crap that haunts me. I can put some things on the back burner & deal with the more pressing things in life. What I learn each day is that I can only take care of so much in that day. There’s always tomorrow. And I don’t mean that I procrastinate (well, I do, but that’s another topic), I just literally can’t do it all in that day. As long as I’m giving it my best effort, I have to learn that’s enough. There’s always going to be that sticky situation I’d rather not deal with, but I can do it. And I don’t have to carry that burden all by myself.

 Posted by: Shellie (baylormum) // January 20th, 2010 at 8:00 pm>

I sometimes think that God must get tired of knocking me off my pedestal into a place of humility (and often shame) so that I can learn the lessons He desires to teach me. If only I could remember to keep myself humble.

 Posted by: Erin // January 21st, 2010 at 6:00 am>

Came via @KathleenOverby’s tweet. In writing and speaking, this means we have to tell stories that come from pain. The audience will share our pain–if we do our job right–and remember.

The trick of grace, I suppose, is to grow out of our pain without holding onto it and letting it get in the way of our relationships with others and with God.

 Posted by: Marcus Goodyear // January 21st, 2010 at 7:58 am>

Mike you are right on with this one! I try to learn from all my experiences, but the times that really stick, are the times I really screwed up. The fact that we do learn from our mistakes is a good thing, at least we learned and hopefully we won’t make those same mistakes again! What I would really like is to be able to learn from other peoples mistakes. I see other people make mistakes but only learn after I make that same mistake myself. That one really bothers me!!!

 Posted by: Steve Helderle // January 21st, 2010 at 8:30 am>

Thanks for the reminder, Mike – I wish it wasn’t true, but it is so true. Ever read “Pain, the Gift Nobody Wants” by Phil Yancey and Paul Brand? Paul Brand was a famous leprosy surgeon and wrote about what a lack of pain response does to the body and how leprosy patients crave pain because it protects. Yancey and Brand discuss the western world’s pain aversion and how it is killing us. Quite the profound book

 Posted by: Steve Cuss // January 21st, 2010 at 9:07 am>

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 Posted by: uberVU – social comments // January 21st, 2010 at 9:27 am>

@shellie certainly lots of different ways to learn.

@erin humility is certainly key isnt it?

@marcus i think telling stories out of pain is a great strategy for life and leadrship.

@steve h. i wish i could learn from others mistakes…unfortunately too often i make them myself..and then it sticks

@steve cuss i havent read it but I LOVE THAT. im totally buying that one. here i come Amazon.com

 Posted by: Mike Foster // January 21st, 2010 at 9:30 am>

I needed to read this today. Timely and true – thanks Mike!

 Posted by: Jonathan Griffiths // January 21st, 2010 at 9:38 am>

I kind of think of that this way. I can pretty much tell you how I got each one of the scars I have on my body. Why? Where there is a scar there. And why is that importatnt? Because if there is a scar there was/is pain and hurt and we remember when we have had pain and hurt.

I have been through some painful things in life and they are seared into my brain but the happy times – seared is not a word I would use.

Thanks for the thought and reminder!

 Posted by: Jim // January 21st, 2010 at 11:42 am>

@jonathan awesome!

@jim thats a great thot jim. i always say scars are a sign that we survived something. so show them off!

 Posted by: Mike Foster // January 21st, 2010 at 11:48 am>

The best lessons learned hurt the most. It’s so true. Like a little kid who puts their hand on a hot stove. Won’t do that again. Why? It hurt.

 Posted by: Mary Crawford // January 22nd, 2010 at 11:56 am>

I think that God uses that pain to draw us closer to Him. In my most painful times I have found that that is when I draw closer to God. We all also ought to remember that it is temporary because we live in a temporal world. Easier said than done I know. I’m also remembering a sermon that Marty Dunbar gave one Sunday in which he said that we can’t walk with someone through their pain unless we ourselves have been through pain.

 Posted by: Rachel Handley // January 22nd, 2010 at 4:50 pm>

I feel this one, bro. Pain is the teacher who corrects us when we outrun our protection, ay?

 Posted by: Sarah // January 23rd, 2010 at 3:35 pm>

stick they do; scars and all. Fortunately when God teaches a painful lesson it mould you and does not scar you.

 Posted by: Phillip Gibb // January 24th, 2010 at 9:59 am>

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